THE story that you are telling is the same story that fits every market maker. I had accounts at 15 different forex brokers at least from what i remember...and each and everyone of them had its trick to steal you. The majority of the were regulated...but that didn't stoped them from stealing me by reaquetes, delays, hypes.....etc . Even as so called ECN forex brokers are the same. After they see you start making serious money , and of course making them lose their money.... will jump in and take care of you.
Because of the brokers i don't trade forex anymore and i chose commodities instead which are traded at the exchange and on which the broker has nothing to do woth your trades. He gets his commision per trade and that's all.
I don't want you to discourage you guys to quit forex. It is very profitable indeed. I made huge profit's and huge losses also..but the problem was always brokers....even if i was pretty good and a profitable trader......having one more thing against you beyond the market which isn't so easy to predict....reduces your chances drasticly ....and make you in time very frustated.
I personaly am very happy now with trading commodities. I don't trade daily but profits are good enough for me...and i am more calm and maybe more happy...since i don't have so many worries....and thought's.
99% OF THE FOREX BROKERS ARE AGAINST YOU....KEEP THAT IN MIND WHEN YOU WANT TO TRADE FOREX.