I see an interesting discussion here, so just wanted to drop a few lines and my view on the topic as I'm a trader with IamFX aswell.
markkuch, I'm not sure which broker you are referring to as market.com domain does not lead to a broker website, but if you are referring to markets.com, then let me compare for you the cost of trading with them and trading for example with IamFX as it is discussed here. I see the spread on IamFX on for example EURUSD is jumping from 0,7 to 1 pip. When you add to this 1 pip commission, the total cost of your trade will be 1,7 to 2 pips per trade. Markets.com says on their website their typical spread on EURUSD is 2,2 - 3, so the cost of trading with markets.com is higher than with IamFX by at least 0,2 - 1 pip on each trade. I let you decide, which one is better.
I unfortunately don't know what style of trading you have, but if you are making trades and aiming for some 10-20 pips of profit, then I don't think that a 1 pip commission can be an obstacle. I'm doing both longer term trades aimining for 30+pips TP, but also I do scalping a bit for a few pips only. I personally like to have lower spreads as it is better to hit TP and have some side commission rather than not hitting TP at all because of bigger spread. But I understand each trader prefers different trading environment.
markkuch, as far as it concerns VPS, I will not write much as I don't use VPS, but from my view, your situation looks as follows, you can either choose to trade with a broker providing you a free VPS and having a lower cost of trading, or you can go with other broker, who will charge you more for your trading and you won't even get a free VPS. I don't know how much time and money is required to actually setup a VPS by myself :-)
This is my view on this topic. If it helped you in any way markkuch, I'm glad.