well... my first years learning the trades had its emo times. But after a long while, just got used to losses and now able to work around without emo attachment You setup the spots, if it goes your way, bonus. If it doesn't, oh well... then wait for the next opportunity. the truth of trading the charts? they wait for you if your faith is such as that... but if you trade in doubts, that's when it'll swallow you into the emotional abyss.